Kinda feeling this look for fall….

White chain trim vest top
20 GBP - debenhams.com
Camis tops »

REVOLT DESTROYED JEAN SKIRT
$15 - alloy.com
Skirts »

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Serendipity

Did you ever have a “serendipity day”?
I just love those times that things just happen that you least expect, you didn’t plan (nor could you) but are so perfectly “right”.
I was driving to a meeting the other morning and something caught my eye at a yard sale. I was early and had some time before the meeting so I decided to stop. I HATE running late! Anyway I have been on the lookout for a pink robe – not just any pink robe mind you… I do not like the new microfiber ones – I can’t breathe in them and I don’t need another silk one – I wanted a soft terry cloth mid length one in pastel pink. That’s what caught my eye – so for the first time I stopped at a yard sale. It was absolutely perfect and only $2 ! I love a bargain! I also found a few other hard to find items that have been on my mental wish list for a while now.

1. Robe – a comfort item for me – now I can wear my cute little silky thing to bed but walk around the house in comfort and modesty.

2. You would think that since my husband is a carpenter, I would be able to find a hammer or screwdriver when I need one – wrong! I even made myself a tool drawer – nice & organized which attracts everyone to it . Since he can’t find his, he goes to mine and leaves it a mess! So I have wanted one of those little tool kits to stash out of sight. I found one and it is in a pink case with pink handled tools!

3. The book “Captivating” – love this book – I had ordered one from Amazon but found a perfectly new one – hard cover for $1!

4. The book “Home Making” from J.R. Miller – perfect condition – hardcover.

5. A DVD about raising daughters, and some books about raising kids using biblical principles.

6. Various homeschooling resources.

7. An entire financial seminar (audio, books, & workbooks) by Larry Burkette.

8. The perfect white linen shirt – button up – no collar – to show off a turq. necklace – gotta look chic !

9. Various classical music CDs and a celtic Christmas one.

Funny part is, as I was paying I noticed the women were wearing a shirt that I had designed for a local Christian school. We got to talking and I we know a lot of the same people. They assumed I home schooled based purely on the items I picked out. Turns out I have considered doing just that for the upcoming year for my daughter and needed a little encouragement. Nice to know they had confidence in me.This came at a perfect time.

Later at my meeting – which I still made in plenty of time – we were wrapping things up and I was talking to a woman I didn’t know very well. Out of the blue she asked me if I homeschooled ???? Turns out she does, and she gave me the inside scoop on how to begin the process in this area! Now if I can persuade my daughter …. she’s coming around. (As if she has a choice – ha)

Anyway – I found it an odd sort of day – but very inspiring = I feel I am on the right track!

Love that kind of thing!

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Welcome 2010

Away for too long! New year and I have some great things coming up! I will upload my class on “Defining your Personal Style”, Whatever Happened to Charm & Manners? and “Your Awesome Influence as a Woman!” Great areas to start the new year.

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Thanksgiving

Happy Thanksgiving!

This Thanksgiving I resolve to really appreciate and take time with everyone sitting at the table.

Sometimes we get caught up in the drama of life and the idiosyncrasies of each personality, that we fail to appreciate each person as an individual. We can always find something positive about each other! Or we can chose to look at the negative!

If you ever look at the back of a beautiful embroidery you will know what I mean. It’s full of knots & loose threads – (kind of like family) – but the other side makes up something beautiful. Think of it as the “tapestry of life”! Remember, everyone brings something to the table! (punny I know) So, look around the table and be grateful!

Next year, some faces might not be around and some new ones may be added.

If you are hosting the dinner be thankful that your guests chose you to be with this Holiday of Thanks.

A really good idea is to start a guest book.

I found this one at the dollar store, and when we have a holiday meal or even a cookout for church or friends, we pass the guest book around. It’s fun to look back and read the entries, and reminisce of great gatherings and good friends.

Make this part of your Thanksgiving tradition.


It’s a keepsake for generations to come!

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Bad Company

The only problem with de-cluttering is that you eventually get to what I call the “Dregs”. The stuff you put off till last, issues that you just don’t want to deal with. Once the de-cluttering process starts, the Dregs come a callin! For me it is dental issues. I had a terrible habit of grinding my teeth at night and I have hairline cracks in my back molars because of it. My jaw is where my stress resides. I have put off dealing with it for a variety of reasons – plus no pain, so why dredge it up …. until over this weekend when I was forced to deal with it! I was in the ER Friday night because of pain – and I have a really high pain tolerance – but this was just too bad – and out of nowhere! I spent all day Monday at the Dentist only to find out I need oral surgery to remove a wisdom tooth (cracked) that is only partially visible. YUCK and Yeah, I guess. At least now I am forced to deal with it. I am loaded up on antibiotics – (infection in bone near brain} – and have pain medicine as needed to hold me over until after the Thanksgiving holiday when I can get it removed. Since my son was away on a school trip to Florida and my DH away on business, I wanted to finish cleaning the last of old paper clutter and my closet since I had no men to feed or take care of ! I was forced to switch gears and work on old physical clutter. I guess spending the weekend in great pain may teach me a lesson to put my health up on the priority list more than I do! The Dregs are not nice company to have around! Evict them from all areas of your life before they take over!!!

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Thrifty fun

embellished shirt

My tray looks like her shirt!

Had a lot of fun today! I love a good deal. I am putting together a hostess gift basket for my sister since we are having Thanksgiving at her house in Virginia. I found her the cutest top!! It’s her size, color, and cut! It was just calling her name. I’m also going to add a bottle of wine (bottled locally here in Myrtle Beach), some candles, assorted tea bags, epson salts (for bath) and whatever else seems right. That way when everyone leaves she can pamper herself – she will probably need it!

I also found my mom a very unusual gift – she likes chickens – so it’s a rooster & hen salt n pepper shakers – but they have black dots on them!

I found these 2 wine glass candle holders with silver grape leaf designs on the stem and a square “griddle” frying pan.

My “find” was a great pair of Ann Taylor Loft black lined, flat front pants (with tags) – they have a cuffed wider leg, but they are actually long enough for me when wearing heels! I always have a problem with pant length and fit, but these seem just right! Funny part is, the style/cut of pants  indicated on the label is my name ! I don’t usually go for cuffs but these are long enough and I have long legs.

I also found an “ensemble” to wear for upcoming Christmas season events. I love the color black (that’s all I used to have in my closet), but I have finally accepted the fact that my “color” is brown & ivory instead of black & white. So I cheat and wear black on the bottom, and black on top as long as there is some color next my face to soften the black and not wash me out. I’m trying to wear more color.

I found this skirt and top in a dark eggplant (I put together) The top is sheer with some sparkle and the skirt is sheer black fabric over a pink lining to look dark purple (bttm. right of photo). I plan on wearing a black cami under the top! I also found a brighter color cardigan that “goes” with the skirt, for a more casual look. This cardigan is a good color for me. The  sheer “jeweled” top will also go with my new black pants.

LOVE mixing and matching pieces. LOVE NOT paying full price. LOVE knowing I got all this and a few other items for way less than the price tag on the pants!  I know how much it costs to make a garment (job I had before) and the markup is incredible. I also know that quality & fit are very important – I tried on a lot of duds – all in my size – that were either too small or too large! Usually name brands are better made – especially pants. There were a lot of “junk” clothes there too. I would love to be a personal shopper and build wardrobes for clients!

….. I did see some bread machines but didn’t have time to really look – I’ve been looking for one so maybe next time they will still be there!

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Monday Menu:

Breakfast: coffee, Special K cinnamon & pecan cereal w/bananas.

Lunch: Went out with Mom for Brunch – Omelette (cheese, ham, green peppers, onion, mushrooms) Coffee, home-style potatoes, cinnamon raison toast.

afternoon coffee break – coffee & bite or two of Mom’s new cake recipe.

Dinner: spaghetti (“almost” homemade sauce – I love using real garlic, onions, green pepper & herbs! Not only does it smell wonderful but it’s full of antioxidants!) , garlic bread small glass of wine. Saving salad for tomorrow since we had sooo much over the weekend & I am really full from the day! A pear later on that evening.

I do drink water or lemonade during the day! I try and drink a large glass of water before I go to bed.

Money spent – $41.07 Grocery Store – 2-  5 lb bag pears and 2 -  10 lb bag of potatoes (they were BOGOFree) so I know what we will be eating! Also needed some black beans & Dark red Kidney beans for chili later this week, lettuce, spinach, sugar, some various pasta noodles, butter, lemons. Basically some fill in items and took advantage of sale items.

Observation of the day:

Does anyone think there is a direct correlation between clutter and weight/finances/health?????

Seems like people I know who have NO clutter are very slim, healthy and have made wise choices with money. I do know a few exceptions, but they may have some emotional baggage (clutter) hidden on the “inside”.

Also the people with no clutter seem to be selective about what they bring in their home and put in their bodies as an overall rule. No cushion of “stuff ” surrounds them or “fillerfood” eaten just to fill them.

Just a thought – Wondering if it just applies to people I know or if it has some truth to it?

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